Life: Hunting Down a Coward

The following are the words of my friend, Golda Addo. I thought it important to share them with everyone. Apologies if you have already heard it on Citi.
“This morning, at about 7.38 am, I was physically assaulted in my car, on the Mallam-Weija Highway by a man of about mid-thirties, about 5’11 tall, toughly built … dressed in black office shirt and tucked into black denim trousers, black belt, black office shoes, holding a black briefcase. I did not see his face very well though. It all happened in under 1 minute.
“I was sending my son to school, and you all might know that there is major construction going on in that part of town (the highway).
Traffic was moving in short, fast spurts and normally, traffic wardens stop the vehicles to permit masses of people to cross at points in time.
“This man was standing WITH  a large mass of people all in SAME spot, and we were moving at about 30kmp/h, when just about 10 metres before I got to him, he dashed across my car. Nobody else made any move to cross.
“Needless to say, I had to stop abruptly. He had looked at me before dashing across, and had expected me to have screeched to a halt, so took his time. By the time he realised that 10 metres was too short for this to be a safe calculation, he was left with no choice, but to hop and leap …. into the middle of the road, where the cars to my left were also passing by without stopping.
“He was trapped in the middle, I made a sharp brake, the car behind me was blowing his horn like crazy, and next thing I knew, this man swings in my direction and flies his hand in through my half-open window and strikes my face with what seemed like all his might! His parting words were “You fool!”
“I was instantly down, my head was on the steering wheel, my son burst into tears in the back seat, and my face hurt like crazy. I could not see anything and there was blood in my mouth. The man was nowhere to be found, and cars just kept passing me by, especially the ones behind me who saw it all. Several passersby chased after the man though, and tried to catch him, but he was already over the other 4 lanes of the highway and in the tro-tro huddle.
“I had to move off the road and park, but for 5 minutes I was unable to do this because my right eye was fairly swollen, and both eyes were tearing up. My mouth was like “tsofi” and bleeding. Cars honking like mad behind me, and my son wailing …. the passersby talkgin me through it all.
“I decided to leave it be, and drive on slowly …. I did have to get my son to school on time after all.
“The police team (of 4) standing about 20 metres fro the scene did not notice any of these in all the 5 minutes it happened, nor the traffic jam it caused.
“I feel so safe in this country. This is not my first time of facing abuse and harrasmment as a woman, a woman who drives, and a woman who is perceived as successful and independent in this country … from men. But this is my first physical abuse.

“If anyone can spread this message, I will appreciate it. If you know of any friend, co-worker, acquaintance who fits this bill for today, was in the Mallam area this morning, seems a bit out of sorts this morning, etc … find out  for me. If you can, pass this on. If you know anyone on the social platforms …. do share to them. I’d like to meet this man and ask him why he did this, and if it felt good … striking a woman in the face, and leaving her and her son in tears.”


5 thoughts on “Life: Hunting Down a Coward

  1. I’m utterly dumbstruck. I hope you and your son are much better now Golda. I can’t believe that the cars behind just continued as if nothing had happened. I am truly sorry you had to go through this and I’m sure it’s equally frustrating to discover that there’s not much you can do. I can only hope that this coward is caught soon and perhaps other innocent people will be spared this kind of ordeal.


  2. Wow, what a sad story. Truly a coward who would strike someone knowing that the victim had no chance to defend him or herself, and no chance to catch them. Fortunately this does not happen often, especially in Ghana. It would be nice to find this person and let him know that his actions are unacceptable.


  3. Merci beaucoup. Thank you very much. I hear karma makes for better closure, so I let go.

    Y’all stay safe. Thanks, Kobi for the forward and sharing.



    1. I was really incensed when I heard what happened to Golda via Twitter. I hope they do catch this coward and he be publicly named and shamed. He has absolutely no excuse for his deplorable behaviour.


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